Eskalera Guiding Questions for Managers
Below are guiding questions and follow on materials that you can talk about with your teams to further their understanding of the Eskalera journey:
Identity and Diversity Matter
Understanding Diversity
Additional Engagement Opportunities for Team Members:
- TED talk on the Power of Vulnerability (20:49) Brene Brown
- Why Opening Up at Work is Harder for Minorities
Manager Questions for 1:1 and Team Meetings:
- During the module what were your initial thoughts when listing your identities?
- Are there invisible identities that you listed, but rarely share with your colleagues? Is there a reason why you choose not to share those identities?
Understanding Diversity/Our Identity in the World
Additional Engagement Opportunities for Team Members:
- America Ferrera describes her relationship to identity and stereotypes (14:02)
Manager Questions for 1:1 and Team Meetings:
- Self-disclosing information about identity can be uncomfortable and vulnerable for many. How did you feel during this exercise?
- Is there an aspect of your identity that people often make incorrect assumptions about?
- Have you had conversations with colleagues about what you’re learning in Eskalera? How did those conversations go?
Our Identity in the World/Your Lens on Diversity
Additional Engagement Opportunities for Team Members:
- Additional Resource: Watch: The Danger of a Single Story (18:34) Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Manager Questions for 1:1 and Team Meetings:
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What did you notice -- for/within yourself -- while doing the “what you see versus what you know” activity?
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Judging others is a natural instinct. This exercise is about suspending thoughts and actively listening. What did you learn about yourself/others during this exercise?
Impact of Exclusion
Otherness
Additional Engagement Opportunities for Team Members:
- Embracing otherness, embracing myself, Thandie Newton, 2011
Manager Questions for 1:1 and Team Meetings:
- How did you feel when reflecting on the term “othering”?In what ways do you see “othering” taking place within your life?
- “Panning” is to make observations about group dynamics without assumptions or judgements, what did you find hard about “panning” when observing a group?
- Now that you are familiar with the term “panning” in what ways did your observations change when entering into a group dynamic?
Otherness and Covering
Additional Engagement Opportunities for Team Members:
- Why am I “so gay?”, Thomas Lloyd
Manager Questions for 1:1 and Team Meetings:
- How have you felt in the past when you had to hide a difference?
- In what ways can you create an inclusive setting to allow differences to be shared?
- How have you felt in the past when you have taken a risk (opened up and shared your opinion)?
- Looking at the colleagues you work with on a daily basis, how much do people share about their personal lives? Is it an expectation that you share?
Covering and Ingroup/Outgroup
Additional Engagement Opportunities for Team Members:
- Ingroup Bias (Definition + Examples), YouTube
- Outgroup Bias (Definition + Examples), YouTube
Manager Questions for 1:1 and Team Meetings:
- How does talking about “unwritten rules” make you feel?
- Reflect on a time when there was an unwritten rule that impacted you, in that moment how did you feel? Did you follow up with anyone?
- How did you feel when determining who was in your “ingroup” and who was in your “outgroup”?
- Reflect on what makes you feel more comfortable with folks that may be in your ingroup? Likewise, what makes you feel uncomfortable with those in your outgroup?
- In what ways has your level of comfort changed when reflecting on “ingroup” versus “outgroup”?
- In what ways will you alter your approach when working within a group setting (after understanding ingroup and outgroup)?